To schedule your wedding, please contact the Pastoral Associate.

Debbie Marcil
Pastoral Associate
402-333-8989 
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After your wedding date confirmation, you will be given a marriage prep packet with necessary information, including Archdiocesan requirements and preparations for your actual wedding day.  Debbie is available for you to discuss the presiding priest and can help you with any questions you might have.

Your wedding ceremony will likely be filled with meaningful scripture and treasured music. See the lists of wedding scriptures below. A typical wedding Mass or wedding liturgy with no Mass contains an Old Testament Reading, a Psalm, a New Testament Reading and a Gospel passage. 

Click the button below for a worksheet that will help you plan your ceremony. 

Worksheet

 

  • Old Testament Selections
  • Psalms
  • New Testament Selections
  • Gospel Passages
  • Wedding Music

It can be exciting and intimidating to personalize the worship for your Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. There are some brief resources below, but for further coordination and information about booking musicians, what to expect in terms of cost, and other planning concerns, please contact our Worship Director.

Drew Neneman
Worship & Music Director
402-333-6992
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We have several, wonderful, professional musicians in our parish we can coordinate for your wedding. But you are also welcome to use your own contractor. Drew Neneman has performed 100s of weddings in the Omaha area, and will take care of your wedding or whichever contractors you see fit to collaborate with.

Scroll through the following topics to start considering how you'd like to design your Wedding Music.

Sample Music Selections

Remember any title from the "Breaking Bread" hymnal we worship with, is acceptable at your Wedding.

Sample Music 

Should I hire My Musicians?

Probably, yes. The different rites of worship across many Christian faiths and Catholicism in particular are all unique and may be executed to greater degree of success by someone with training and experience.

Friends and relatives may offer to perform your wedding music as a gift and that can be lovely..... but often this is a more daunting task than amateurs and couples realize. Non-professional musicians who want to gift your wedding music, even if they play and sing beautifully may fare better as part of your ceremony if you ALSO hire a professional accompanist and arrange for rehearsals in advance of the ceremony.

Especially, in a metropolitan area with a thriving professional music community like Omaha's; it will make your wedding easier, more streamlined and, above all, as beautiful as it can be for your guests and memories, to let professionals do what they do and perform your ceremony with a personal, polished and artistic touch.

...That said...all musicians, professional or not, are welcome to perform your wedding here as you wish. We only ask that you communicate and plan with our musical staff to make any necessary collaboration or rehearsal beautiful and effective.

Do I have to hire musicians from St. Robert Bellarmine? 

No! If you find a musician you love and trust, they are welcome to perform here! They simply have to contact our Worship Director at least 2 weeks before the wedding to coordinate their use of our facilities.

However, we have many fantastic professionals in our parish who have a reputation of creating fabulous music, at competitive rates in the Omaha market. We will take good care of you and would love to design a beautiful collaboration for your sacrament

 

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